How many of you can say that you have been through your man’s or woman’s phone and found there ex in there listed as their pet name that they had for them when they dated? Like Sexy, Baby, Babe, or Sexy Babe and they had you listed as your name or a name that isn’t as personal as one of those like the ex? How did that make you feel? Did you feel disrespected? Did it bother you? How did you handle it? Did you confront them? Did you let it slide? Ok lets put you in a situation. Let’s say they lost their phone and they had their ex as one of those pet names listed in their phone and the person found their phone and the person called the ex because of the way it was listed in their phone, and the ex called you and let you know that they lost their phone. So you decide to call their phone and someone answers and you have to say Hi my name is …. I believe you have my boyfriend/girlfriends phone knowing that they just called their ex because of the listed name. Now how does that make you feel? Did you feel embarrassed? Disrespected? Hurt? Did it bother you? How did you confront your partner? How did your partner handle it? Did your partner say I changed it because I didn’t want to fight with you about it? Like they didn’t want to change it because maybe they still have feelings for them? How would you handle it? What would you do? As always Remember to smile it’s your best Feature and UNICORNS ROX!
While sitting in the doctor’s office waiting for my best friend to get out. Turned on my music and surfing on the computer. I started singing in my own world not giving a care I noticed out the corner of my eye that the lady sitting close by started looking at me at this point wanting to get up and start dancing and having fun not caring who sees or who says what at this point it. I am not in this world to please everyone I am here to put that smile on everyone. One thing I have learned through this is public appearance and what everyone sees you as. Don’t let that stop you be you. Sing like no one is listening, Dance like no one is watching, and Love like you know you can.
A while back someone asked “What does love mean to you?” “What does forever mean to you?” “What does marriage mean to you?” Each person has their own unique answer to each of those questions there is no right or wrong answer to them. Not only has that it also depended on where you grew up and how you was raised. Take me for instance I was born and raised in Arkansas (Bible Belt State) so for me Love means compassion, no judgement, no blame, trust, freedom, support, love is a bond that constitutes as the most desirable need/want someone could ever feel, it means that you fall in love with that person more and more every day, it means you look past their flaws and straight to their heart, it is selfless and unconditional, putting your needs last and the other persons needs first, never having to say you’re sorry. What about forever? You feel comfortable around them, you could endlessly admire, adore them, connected to them, feel in sync, feel secure, makes you feel like you’re the only person, someone you can share your feelings safely, be heard and supported, and work together, the positive, content feeling, you’ll crave them constantly, you’ll feel as though you can handle anything together. Ok now here’s on everyone can say something different and never have the same answer as anyone else. That’s right Marriage. trusting, giving, being willing to change, it means security in each other’s love and support, it means always having someone to talk to, laugh with, confide in, and work together with, it means doing what it takes to make the relationship successful, the formal union of a man and woman, recognized by the society, a symbol of a unity, it’s a stronger bond between two people, mutual promise between two people, your teammate for life and inspires you every day, love each other for emotional and physical benefit. In all things together it means you become one with one another. You would go to the end of the world for the other person. Now in conclusion the one thing that everyone can agree on is Happiness. Happiness is knowing that you have that special somebody to be by your side no matter what happens in life, they will walk beside you not in front of you or behind you they will be by your side no matter how many lemons life throws your way. With that being said please feel free to comment on what your thoughts are on these, would love to read what everyone thinks and feels about this.
Today as I was sitting in my chair I realized something. I realized kids these days have it made. When I was a kid we didn’t have cell phones, or laptops, or even Wi-Fi. We had house phones, desktops and dial up, snail Mai We had skate boards, bikes, in-line skates, softball, cheerleading, basketball, choir, and band. We didn’t get calls on our phones telling us to come home. Our call was lighting bugs and street lights, we didn’t have to work about walking by ourselves like they do now. Back then we picked up hitchhikers. We left doors unlocked, keys in cars, and lawnmowers in the yard when we left to go to the store. Now day’s kids are sheltered not knowing what is really going on in the world. When they get older they are not going to understand what the real world is like. I say let your kids explore there is a reason why you got them a cell phone us it let them see the world.
Sister Mary Clarence:
If you want to be somebody, if you want to go somewhere, you better wake up and pay attention.
Sister Mary Clarence:
Now listen, I know you’ve got to think about your image, cause image is important to you, because of course your friends are gonna dictate your actions through the rest of your lives, and I wouldn’t want you to step away from them and become an individual, that would almost be too much!
Who says you can’t do this or you can’t do that? Who says you can’t be who you want to be? Who says you can’t be a Barbie or a Princess or even a farmer or a Pirate or even a Unicorn? If you have ever heard that you can’t do or be just remember one thing can’t never could because he never did try. If anything shoot for the stars, rope that moon, hog tie that calf, Arrg that peg leg, fly over that rainbow. Because guess what you can. You can do this and you can do that, you can be who you want to be you can be Barbie, you can be a princess and a farmer or even that pirate better yet be that Unicorn, be unique be someone different don’t be a follower don’t be a leader (that gets tiring) be that purple sheep why? Because that purple sheep dances to the beat of their own drum. They don’t care if anyone is watching they dance, they sing, they do everything they were told they couldn’t do. It doesn’t matter how old you are do that hoe down, that cotton eye joe, dance to the beach boys or better yet dance to any song your heart desires, always remember dancing is good for the soul and a great work out. If you want to sing while you dance go for it. If you want that last cookie it’s not going to hurt eat a tube of ice cream or watch an episode of Grey’s look at Dr. McDreamy or Dr. McSteamy its ok. You don’t like Grey’s that’s ok watch Fifty Shades of Grey or Frozen. The point is its ok to be who you are and no one should tell you any different. Until next time… Smile it’s your best feature and UNICORNS ROX!!!!!!!!
How many people can actually say they know which finger a ring goes and what it actually means? Well in this blog I will tell you. At the end please tell me if you actually knew the meaning behind each finger…
Pinky Finger: Intuition, Communication, and Quick Intelligence, Represents Memory, Good Negotiator, Self-Confident, Creative Person.
Left Pinky: Connects with crime. Most high powered criminals where a ring on this finger to show power.
Right Pinky: Professional Status. As the left pinky it also shows how much power one has
Ring Finger: Relationship Finger. The reason that it is called the relationship finger is because it is the only finger that has a direct vain to the heart.
Left and Right Ring Finger: The both have the same meaning. They both mean Marriage, Engaged, Promise, and Abstinence.
Middle Finger: Balance, Responsibility, Justice, Beauty, Self-Analysis
Left Middle Finger: Beauty, Responsibility. This show how much Beauty someone has within their heart. It also show how much Responsibility that they hold up for them self.
Right Middle Finger: Balance, Justice, and Self Analysis. This show they can control the Balance and Justice in their life. The Self Analysis part is figuring out how you truly see yourself on a subconscious level
Index Finger: Leader, Huge Self Esteem.
Left Index Finger: Resting Place meaning it makes it connected to status. Want to show off, wear a classy and expensive ring on your left index finger
Right Index Finger: Thirst for power, willingness to be pompous and exhibit a fake personality. It also means obedience and humility to learn from other.
Thumb: Will Power, Assertive, Bold, Inner Conflict.
Left Thumb: Confident, Fashionable. For women, it indicates tenacity, willpower, and self-assertion, a ring on the left thumb of a woman is associated with having manly characters. Such characters could be stubbornness or hot-temperateness
Right Thumb: For women, it indicates a level of dissatisfaction with the intimate parts of life or a combination of some tomboyish attitudes and stubbornness.
We all know you want to look good when wearing rings on whichever finger(s) you choose. It is a good decision, and you do not have to look awkward or weird when using rings for another purpose other than beauty. For whatever reason you deem rings worthy of wearing, beauty can be achieved either as a perk or the cardinal reason. Always remember you will always look good with a smile on your face and a good heart in your chest
Believes a ring on the right pinky finger means being a good follower. And it means a good understanding of others’ wishes and ideas
Believes a ring on the ring finger. The yang (the right hand) is a sign of teaching ability; you can easily and effectively teach others problem-solving skills. The yin (the left hand) means a relationship went sour, you are divorced, or you are experiencing widowhood.
Believes a ring on the middle finger, wearers of rings on this finger want the attention; they want others to give them the attention
A ring on the index finger. With the yin and yang concept, it means the tenacity to lead others – on the left index finger as the yin. On the right, it means obedience and humility to learn from others.
Believes a ring on the thumb. Is believed that things that are opposite in meaning may have complementary and interconnected meaning. These opposing things are called yin and yang… and with this belief, the ring on the yin (left) thumb represents assertiveness. It means otherwise on the yang (right) thumb: flexible nature and fast adaptation to people’s will
The Chinese philosophy of yin and yang has a different judgments, and no matter which meaning you choose just remember that it’s no one’s place to judge anyone for how they wear the ring all that matters is the heart and soul of the person. Please, do not forget to wear rings for your preference. Not everyone will get the message. And that is fine. You are not wearing it for ‘everyone’ in the first place… or are you?
Now is the big question which way would you wear your rings? Please comment and tell us know what you think about the wearing of the ring.
The other day I was surfing the web and I came across this website and was looking at what they had and I showed someone an item that was on there and that person said “It’s cool, but you know how I feel about that” and it got me thinking ( I know, I know. Did it hurt? Yes, it did hurt to think LOL). What did I feel at the time and how it made me feel with what was said? Did I feel love, lifetime, or did I feel happiness? Well at that time I felt my heart drop and feel like an complete idiot for thinking that it meant the same thing to that person as it meant to me, it was heart breaking knowing that it didn’t mean anything to that person it was like it was just something that had no meaning, no planning , no anything it was empty. Then it got me thinking more and more about life and how it is supposed to turn out. When you feel like when you’re in a relationship and you think you know that person is the person you are suppose to spend the rest of your life with and go through this thing that people call life with that person no matter how many lemons life throws at the couple your supposed to pick those lemons up and hold on to them for the future and make orange juice out of them and make all the other relationships around you jealous. It’s not meant to be thrown back and say deal with it it’s your own problem figure out your own thing and leave me out of it. A relationship is between two people who love each other unconditionally, not a one-sided love. Now it is everything you have never thought of like “Why even try?” “Why keep the spirit alive inside you when the other person doesn’t want to?” “Why keep trying when the other person wants something that the other person doesn’t?” Someone once told me “Why pay for the cow when you can get the milk for free?” I am now starting to understand what the person was saying. Why want something someone else doesn’t? Why bother with it? It’s like why keep trying when the other person wants to stay frozen in time and the other person wants to grow the relationship and they don’t meet eye to eye? The funny thing is that someone once told me that they couldn’t see the person going any further in a relationship and settling down to a long-term relationship. I am now beginning to see what they meant by that. Now comes the real question? Should I give up and move on or should I hold on to that rope and hope that it don’t break one day? I know things happen for a reason and there is a reason for everything but to keep trying to find that reason behind things and keep stuffing those lemons in my bra hoping that one day I can make that orange juice and have people wonder how it was done, because one day those lemons are going to go bad and start getting soft. A passionate attraction and desire that both should have towards one another is just a mere fatal attraction when it is one-sided. What is done can be undone, what can be, will be and what is done is done. Hope everyone has a wonderful day and always remember UNICORNS ROX!!!!!!!!